Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Asanas: Beyond Kama Sutra Sex Positions

Asanas: Beyond Kama Sutra Sex Positions
Just getting into a kama sutra position for lovemaking isn’t all there is to it. What you bring to the act of love is wisdom, attention, skills, presence of mind/body/spirit, fun, playfulness, and desire. Merely assuming a position isn’t going to do it for most lovers. Learning and bringing to the experience the depth of all that is possible is when you begin to truly open the door to magic.

New kama sutra positions are possibly the best way to introduce variety and interest into a sexual relationship. They can be exciting, a little challenging, and often inspiring. There are really only a handful of basic positions but there are many, many variations on each of the basic ones, leading to greater pleasure for any couple.

Asanas or Positions of the Kama Sutra
The Kama Sutra is often seen as the ultimate catalog of sexual positions. It’s a good start but there are other love manuals with different positions and techniques that the Kama Sutra doesn’t detail. As you study this book, to make it easier, remember the basic categories and then explore the variations within each, rather than trying to remember 101 different positions. If something you read or see excites you, try it soon.

You can count on having new things to talk about and learn together when you investigate new positions. When exploring them with a sense of fun, they will lead to laughter, confusion, communication, and a sense of accomplishment. You’ll probably find that some will work well for you, and some just won’t work at all.
One of the great discoveries about positions is that after you’ve tried a few new ones, much of your awkwardness or reluctance will disappear. You’ll find yourself being willing to try other new things with your lover. That’s what makes exploring different positions so important. This form of trying something new will often lead to a transformed sexual relationship.

Not only are new positions fun to try they are often the key for women to learn how to increase their pleasure and help create the possibility of vaginal or G-spot orgasms. Men will also get much more satisfaction from intercourse by discovering positions that increase their stamina and give them better control over how long they last.

Just getting into a position for lovemaking isn't all there is to it. What you bring to the act of love is wisdom, attention, skills, presence of mind, body, spirit, fun, playfulness, and desire. Merely assuming a position isn't going to do it for most lovers. Learning and bringing to the experience the depth of all that is possible is when you begin to truly open the door to magic.

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